All in the mind. It may be better to keep it that way, rather than risk the tummy as well I think that I know well as anyone, sometimes it seems so hard to let go. All we can really do is try and live in hope. or All we can really do is try, and, live in hope; Or what? If one keeps one’s thoughts to oneself there is less risk of offending others. That way no one, including yourself, will ever know.