Veem
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Post by Veem on Oct 11, 2022 14:37:40 GMT 1
Oh, mangetout it is so clear that you are bursting for someone to know how you are feeling and it's hardly surprising. How proud your husband would have been to see how you are coping and the wonderful tribute you have paid him here today. Stay positive and treasure those wonderful memories. Big hugs. Would you like someone to speak to? If you wish I'd be happy to send you my number ................... xx
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Post by mangetout on Oct 11, 2022 14:56:47 GMT 1
Thank you for your kind offer Veem. If things get very bad I'll get back to you. Just needed to say it. I loved him so much.
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Post by cernunnos on Oct 11, 2022 15:13:25 GMT 1
Brought tears to my eyes mangetout. Jen is on a facebook site ( i'm not on facebook) called widows and widowers in France together , it is a support site for those that have lately lost their partner. Perhaps it may help?
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Post by mangetout on Oct 11, 2022 15:22:39 GMT 1
Yes it would, thank you. I'm a numpty when it comes to tech but I am on Facebook, although am frequently confused! Is there a site name?
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suein56
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Post by suein56 on Oct 11, 2022 15:30:37 GMT 1
Got no-one else to talk to, so I've turned to you to tell of my experience today. I've just got back from the funeral parlour after saying goodbye to my love for the last time .. Just you carry on .. we'll be happy to listen and support you if need be.
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Post by cernunnos on Oct 11, 2022 15:30:44 GMT 1
Jen said put "widows and widowers in France together" in the search box on facebook , and it will come up. Bon courage and hugs from us. Jen was widowed a while back .
Do not stand By my grave, and weep. I am not there, I do not sleep— I am the thousand winds that blow I am the diamond glints in snow I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle, autumn rain. As you awake with morning’s hush, I am the swift, up-flinging rush Of quiet birds in circling flight, I am the day transcending night. Do not stand By my grave, and cry— I am not there, I did not die.
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Post by jackie on Oct 11, 2022 18:14:34 GMT 1
I’m so sorry for your loss Mangetout.
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Post by pcpa on Oct 11, 2022 19:38:53 GMT 1
Will you have support from friends and/or family on the funeral day Mangetout?
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Post by specsavers2 on Oct 11, 2022 20:20:33 GMT 1
Most sincere condolences. Hold onto all those memories.
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Post by Seaboots on Oct 11, 2022 20:26:15 GMT 1
My condolencies, stay strong
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Post by Loiseau on Oct 11, 2022 23:55:31 GMT 1
I am so sorry to hear this, mangetout.
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Post by mangetout on Oct 12, 2022 0:49:04 GMT 1
Will you have support from friends and/or family on the funeral day Mangetout? No. I said my goodbyes at the funeral parlour yesterday. He goes alone to be cremated today and I will go to the village Church and pray for him.
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Post by gigi on Oct 12, 2022 8:34:23 GMT 1
You and he will be in my thoughts today, mangetout.
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Veem
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Post by Veem on Oct 12, 2022 8:48:58 GMT 1
I believe you chose to do the right thing today. I'll be thinking of you too. x
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Post by lindalovely on Oct 12, 2022 13:21:06 GMT 1
Very sorry to hear your news Mangetout. He was a lucky man to have had you beside him all his life. Courage
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