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Post by houpla on Sept 25, 2021 5:31:46 GMT 1
How does this work when one of a couple is all for de-cluttering, ensuring everything is simplified for the future, etc., but the other is just the opposite? It took me 20 years to convince OH that he wouldn't immediately drop dead if he made a UK will, so it looks as though the Betamax video recorder and tapes will be infesting the attic for a while yet
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Post by catrose on Sept 26, 2021 8:32:31 GMT 1
Just one thing at a time…..drag said item out of its storage place and talk about it for a while, happy memories it evokes etc. Then try to discuss what might be best to do with it. Like with little children don’t ask open questions but just give options….shall we give it to George or sell it.
i’ve had some small success with this technique.. but still have to climb round a table tennis table we’ve not used in 12 years and are unlikely ever to do so again…So doesn’t work for everything!
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